Because He Loved Us First: How God’s Love Shapes Our Identity

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Have you ever wondered who you truly are? Not who the world says you are, or even who you think you are—but the identity that comes from the One who created you? God’s love does something extraordinary—it not only fills our hearts but also defines who we are.

The moment we embrace God’s love, everything changes. We stop seeing ourselves through the lens of our past mistakes, flaws, or what others think. Instead, we begin to see ourselves as God sees us—loved, valued, and chosen.


We Are Loved, No Matter What

In a world where love is often conditional—based on how we look, what we achieve, or what we can give—God’s love stands out. His love is not something we earn; it’s a gift we simply receive.

Old Testament: “The Lord appeared to us in the past, saying: ‘I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness’” (Jeremiah 31:3).

New Testament: “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

This reminds us that our identity doesn’t come from our performance but from the unchanging, sacrificial love of God. You are loved, not because of what you’ve done, but because of who He is.


We Are Chosen and Set Apart

When we understand that God’s love is the foundation of our identity, we begin to walk differently. We are no longer striving to prove ourselves or fit into molds that others create. Instead, we rest in the truth that we are chosen by Him.

Old Testament: “For you are a people holy to the Lord your God. The Lord your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession” (Deuteronomy 7:6).

New Testament: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light” (1 Peter 2:9).

Being chosen means you are not an afterthought. God picked you on purpose, and His love sets you apart for His glory.


God’s Love Empowers Us to Love Others

When you know you are deeply loved, it overflows into your relationships with others. God’s love transforms us, softening our hearts and giving us the ability to love—even when it’s hard.

Old Testament: “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord” (Leviticus 19:18).

New Testament: “We love because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19).

This love is not just a feeling but an action. It’s choosing kindness when someone is unkind. It’s forgiving when it’s undeserved. And it’s showing grace because we’ve received so much grace ourselves.


Living From This Identity

So, how do we live from the identity God’s love gives us?

  1. Believe It: Remind yourself daily that you are loved, chosen, and enough because of Him.
  2. Speak It: Replace negative self-talk with God’s truth about who you are.
  3. Live It: Let God’s love flow through your actions—love others, serve, and shine His light.

A Song to Reflect On

As you reflect on how God’s love shapes your identity, I recommend listening to “Who You Say I Am” by Hillsong Worship. Let the lyrics remind you that you are chosen, not forsaken, and that God’s love is the foundation of who you are.


A Prayer to Close

Father, thank You for loving us and calling us Your own. Help us to rest in the identity You’ve given us. May Your love shape how we see ourselves and how we love others. Let our lives be a reflection of Your goodness. Amen.


Remember, your identity is not defined by the world but by the One who loves you beyond measure. Let this truth sink in today—you are His, and that changes everything. 🌿